BDSM by Claudia Typhoon

The more I learn and grow as a kinkster and Domina the more I realize that it has always been an integral part of who I am. BDSM starts simply as Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. I know at least one person reading this is laughing at my use of 'simply' as BDSM is not simple. This acronym is just the start of a varied and complex sexuality and way of being. unfortunately I have met a lot of people within the scene that are rigid and inclusive. I can see their perspective, but I don't agree with it. although there is a beautiful sexual revolution happening all around us, there is still a great deal of judgement towards those that are involved in alternative or non-typical sexualities or what the mainstream perceives as 'normal'. even though gay marriage is being legalized, there are still stigma in being homosexual. so you can imagine that when a woman prefers to fuck men with phallic fruit and veggies while he wears lacy undergarments, she uses him as an ashtray and spits on him, and binds his penis and testicles with a pink lace ribbon in the process as part of their sexual repertoire, a lot of people would consider that odd. I consider it exciting. Realizing and exploring my sexuality has always been very important to me. I was never taught that sexuality is something to be ashamed of, something a very vocal part of our nation has not caught on to. I have been amazed by what I have come to enjoy sexually just because I was open to experimentation. I have also learned things that I don't like, to be sure. so I encourage you all to explore. pick someone you feel comfortable with and pursue a fantasy. start simple, involve food, kiss different parts of the body, delay an orgasm, play with toys. tantric sex is not the only way to be intimate with your partner. just know that everyone is engaging in some kind of kink. can you think of a single person who just has sex in a few key positions? They are the minority. if anyone ever makes fun of you for engaging in or having interest in kink, own it and know that they are probably making fun of you because they don't have the confidence or courage to communicate their sexual desires in the way that you do.

delays in service.

hello there. I post every sunday/monday unless of course I am out of town. If there is a long delay, please excuse it. I'm out in the world, having a great time and will post upon my return. check out my twitter or website for potential updates. you might just be able to run into me in your hometown.

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as always, I encourage questions and comments, no matter how silly, strange, stupid or random they are. those are typically the best kinds of questions.

learning the body: the Montgomery gland. by Claudia Typhoon

also known as the Areolar glands  sebaceous glands in the areola surrounding the nipple. The glands make oily secretions (lipoid fluid) to keep the areola and the nipple lubricated and protected. Volatile compounds in these secretions may also serve as an olfactory stimulus for newborn appetite.^[1]

The portions of the gland on skin's surface are called "Montgomery tubercles". The round bumps are found in the areola, and on the nipple itself. They can become exposed and raised when the nipple is stimulated. The skin over the surface opening is lubricated and tends to be smoother than the rest of the areola. The tubercles become more pronounced during pregnancy.

The number of glands can vary greatly, usually averaging from 4 to 28 per nipple.^[2]

They are named after Dr. William Fetherstone Montgomery (1797–1859), an Irish obstetrician who first described them in 1837

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Areolar_glands

The Montgomery glands are sometimes susceptible to infection or irritation. Infection is often related to mastitis, an infection involving the mammary glands as well as surrounding glands and tissue. Mastitis is most common in women who are pregnant or lactating. When infection is present, medical treatment is required in order to get rid of the infection and keep it from spreading.

http://www.wisegeek.org/what-are-montgomery-glands.htm

I had a friend recently that had a terrible infection from one of her glands. it secreted a black substance and terrified her. I never even knew what this gland was called and wasn't terrible concerned about it on my own breast, but after trying to find information about it I learned that many women have insecurities about a part of their body that is completely normal to have. our bodies are very interesting things and our capacity to heal and be so fragile is an interesting dichotomy. but the irritation of [non-sterile excision of the tubercles, constant rubbing (from clothing) or too much rough nipple play] can lead to infection and if these very useful glands excrete anything that isn't a white, waxy substance, you should see a doctor. but please ladies and gents, don't ever feel insecure or upset about this very natural part of your chest, confidence is a very sexy thing and there will always be people out there that find you attractive.