An email that evoked a response.

Unnamed male:

Hi Saw your ad, I am a 33 yr old male, Im fun safe and clean, I like to get into all sorts of kinky scenarios, And I'm wondering if you'd help with this fetish,
I get a kick out of seeing women flash strangers, and so I've set up scenes like this safely in my studio three times with different models and willing young women,
Basically, I have you at my art studio, dressed in a low blouse with no bra,
and a short skirt with no panties,
I invite message courriers, delivery people, pizza delivery, and contractors to come do work,
You pose as my assistant, and you help me take these orders, In the actions you do a lot of bending over, squatting, sitting with legs spread flashing them , But all the while remaining aloof, like you don't know your giving such a good show,
Let me know if this is something you'd be in to trying to help me with,
and we can talk on phone to set it up,
talk soon

Ms. Typhoon:

I don't think you have seen a professional Dominatrix before. One of the cornerstones of BDSM is that everyone consents to the activities at hand. Flashing strangers without consent in a planned manner is not a responsible activity and with the right person can get you arrested. A Domina also would not parade Her sexual resources such as Her pussy or breasts to strangers like that, She doesn't expose Herself for the attention of others, She commands the gaze, She doesn't beg for it. I am all for sexual expression and I'm glad you are able to enjoy it with others but I want you to consider it through the Alpha Feminine lens. I would suggest connecting with a different type of sex worker, there are many wonderful ones out there, and have Her put on a show with some friends. Things could escalate in a surprising and satisfactory way from there. Talk to the Lady first and suggest any other possibilities that can arise (so she can know pricing and know what she will need to bring), and maybe your "fuck buddy/friend" could tease the hell out of a friend or two of yours and it becomes a gangbang. I mean......that's where I would go with it. 

The myth of the "minute man"

As I see it through a Domme lens, I am not upset with the minute man but rather thrilled that he is so excited by My presence that he looses control of himself. I however, do not enjoy this about adult babies, so I punish the bad babies. After he has cum on the inside of his pants, trembling before Me, I must humiliate and punish him. And I bet, I could make him cum from the excitement of the pain and humiliation he is about to receive for offending a Goddess with his man seed. If I want a male orgasm, I take it. Many of you do not deserve orgasm within My presence and I will make you suffer for it. Now, doesn't that sound exciting? I think so. In muggle sex life, I've Harry Pottered that shit and known both worlds; I never minded that a man came quickly as long as they could continue afterwards with enthusiasm and keep their indiscretion physically to themselves, were cool about it. I think it ideal that partners can multiple orgasm because of the other. The frequency is totally up to your personal libidos, but the ability to do so and give to the other is important. Minute men just need training in either a vanilla or BDSM context. I think small penis humiliation ties into this. When men orgasm quickly in a vanilla context, a girl might respond in a humiliating way that he hasn't experienced before. Being told that his cock, which he loves, is pathetic and unsatisfying. This can't be true, can it? I've actually had a lot of SPH from beautiful men that had satisfactory dicks. A girl telling a normally successful male that his lover for life is not good enough gives a rush that arouses him above all other things. A man that wants his cock humiliated craves it. I see you, chronic masturbators out there. Stop callousing your cock, give in to your desires and pursue a Dominant Woman. She will make you better, give Her everything She asks for, She deserves it. In a vanilla context I would suggest that that Woman immediately flips the switch (if not already in this direction) to the focus of the sex life be about her satisfaction and orgasm.

Ethics of engaging in abuse cycles.

A lot of our behaviour is learned from our families and our respective cultures. Many people rebel from social norms because the normal mode of living isn't for them. Most of breaking away from the clan is due to abuse or the clan's lack of ability to accept change. As an individual that had to break from an abuse cycle and in doing so, recognise it and its affect on how I engaged with others I noticed that many people are broken by the neglect or abuse of their family members and are not able to recognise healthy behaviours and will in fact feel neglected and abuse in order to have their partners return this same hostile "love" that they learned. I have taken many souls into My life that were in the need of a Domina to point out the trauma in their lives and teach them how to be people. A surprising amount only wanted to keep being abused by Me. They didn't want to be better or happy. They wanted misery and fear, something I give in easy and ample doses. The issue with My giving this to a submissive who has say been sexually assaulted by their own mother is that it drives them deeper into their personal hell until it becomes a cornerstone of who they are. We are not our abuses or abusers, we are better then our abusers because we do not continue to abuse, we teach and right wrongs. This is the magic and power of a skilled Domina; She can recognise the underlying factors of a person, strip them, rebuild them, make them anew. Some people need what looks like torture to others and leave a session feeling magnificent and powerful, this is the ideal. As much as I would love the vintage jaguar of My dreams, I would rather turn down a session that reinforces past abuses. If I accepted sessions that repeated past pain, I am only grooming a bad person, one that will teach their loved ones that they should hurt in order to receive love and affections. This is not the right message. I groom My slaves to be better people, to contribute to society, deny them their privileges so that they can respect others. We must be Dommes of purpose or we are wasting our power.