Showing posts with label sexual development in children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual development in children. Show all posts

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Kink is hereditary by Claudia Typhoon

a Domme friend and I go on glorious rants together, I find them to be educational and enlightening. something we have discussed is the likelihood of kink being hereditary. I can say from personal experience that I don't doubt it. since most of our behavior is learned, would our sexual behaviours not also be learned? granted we don't sit around and watch our parents fuck, but how we develop as children and as young adults greatly affects our sexual proclivities. even those of us who have not read much psychology are at least familiar enough with Freud's theories to agree with my previous statement. so if our upbringing is similar to our parents, might we not seek the same sexual refuge? might we not also have the same sexual dysfunctions? I would be curious to participate in such a study or read one that may already be in existence. in my case, I had a very dominant father, not that I seek dominant male partners, quite the reverse; but I do seek Dominant sexual partners. then.....I also seek submissive ones......perhaps I should not use myself as an example. let me tell you a story that creates a better parallel. last may I insisted upon helping my parents clean up their house and rid themselves of unwanted items. going through my mother's drawers I found sashes, nipple clamps, dildos, and a hand-made suede flogger. my mother seemed quiet embarrassed, but I was intrigued that she had these items. they certainly weren't to use on my father. I also really enjoy being flogged, but I like the painful snap of hard leather or rubber, not the playful caress of the suede my mother had. I'm going to do more research into this topic and let you know what I find. I'm sure the comparisons will be interesting.

Sunday, January 27, 2013

As a little girl by Claudia Typhoon

I was already a Domina when I was a baby, I would crawl over other babies without any thought to the mounds blockading me. in school I was a bit of a bully it seems, but not the typical one. I wasn't interested in pushing over children that could not defend themselves. instead I wanted larger game. I pushed around those that were bigger and stronger than me. when you are a five year old girl, that means the boys. it got to the point that my teacher sent a note home to my parents stating that I needed to stop chasing the boys, I was scaring them. I found out about reproduction in primary school as well. my mom had a brilliant pop-up book on the gestation cycle of humans. learning about sex so young was beneficial. I think because of this I approached anything sexual in nature with a healthy curiosity and made sure that I had sexual experiences on my own terms. but as much as my barbies had sex, I learned about how messy sex was the hard way. pun intended.